Prostate massage

Before you start anal sex, you need to talk to your partner, discuss their desires, experiences, or even fears. The first and most important thing in this conversation is how a man perceives such stimulation on a psycho-emotional level. That is, he may likeit when you additionally caress him from behind during sex or oral sex, but he will not focus on such touches or will always pull away or even forbid you to caress yourself in this place.

Caresses in the anal area are perceived by many representatives of the stronger sex as something forbidden or indecent, not peculiar to their idea of what it means to be a real man. In this case, if you notice that your partner is pleased when you caress his anal opening with your fingers, toy or tongue, it is important to talk to him about his feelings. Tell him directly that you notice that he likes such caresses and that you want to give him even more pleasure.

If the partner is not against such caresses and would like to try, you can start active actions. If he hesitates and doubts himself or you, you should postpone this idea indefinitely.

We have compiled a small checklist, compliance with which is very important when stimulating the anal opening and prostate:

1. Lube

There should be a lot of it. The anal opening does not release natural lubricant, as the vagina does, so for a comfortable penetration of any object into the anal opening, additional lubricant is simply vital. Preference should be given to a silicone-based lubricant: it dries longer and provides a more delicate glide.

2. Gloves

This is an important part of anal sex games. During anal sex, it is mandatory to use a condom, and during anal petting it is logical to use gloves. First, it will save you from having to run to the bathroom and thoroughly wash your hands to move on to caressing another area, such as the penis. And secondly, it will minimize the occurrence of microtraumas on the mucous membrane, which can be applied with too long nails or a couple of burrs.

3. Patience

If you’ve ever played host to anal games, you know how important it is for your partner to have patience and self-control. When caressing a man from behind, you must remember that in this case, haste and sudden movements are unacceptable. Delicacy, slowness and smoothness are practically the key to successful anal stimulation.

Important nuances

— In the process of preparing for anal penetration, do not forget that you can additionally stimulate the penis. This will not only distract the man from unpleasant sensations and feelings of discomfort that may arise at the very beginning, but also allow him to get additionalнpleasure.

– No pushing movements. In any case, do not try to insert your fingers into the anal opening in one motion, even if it is smooth. Penetration should begin with soft caresses of the outer part of the anal opening, since it is there that a huge number of nerve endings are located.

– You can caress the prostate with circular and stroking movements. At the same time, you should not put too much pressure on the prostate — this can provoke pain. With the increase in pleasure and just before the onset of orgasm, the prostate can increase and become harder — you will immediately feel it with your fingers.

– The most comfortable postures for anal stimulation are lying on your side and standing on all fours. Repeat the prostate massage no earlier than three days after the previous experience.